Life is too short to waste
on things that we will regret sooner or later.
Someone asked me “Why it
is easy for you to say sorry even if it’s not your fault?” and “Why do you
forgive easily despite what they did to you?”
No one in this world never
had a fight with someone; whether it will be a close friend, relative or even a
family member. A point in our lifetime, we did exchange words causing a barrier
between two worlds.
I am a happy loser. If I had
a fight with somebody [which seldom happens] I want to fix it right away. Admit
if you are wrong and say sorry. If you are not to be blamed and yet the person
still doesn’t want to admit it, too. Then put the white flag down and own it up
to you unless you are okay with that and owning it doesn’t make the boat sink,
then you did the right thing.
Having a fight for days,
weeks, months or even years is a total waste of time. *Knock on wood* what if
you met an accident and died or it’s the other way around? You weren’t able to
patch things up. Or on a lighter mood which I prefer rather than the morbid
one the days passed without you guys being okay is such a waste that you
could’ve made memories. If you and your bestfriend always hang out after school
then 5 days passed and you wasted that for nothing.
Someone I know who is a
young father to his 2 wonderful little kids died in a blink of an eye. Yesterday
he was all jolly and happy and the next morning, shocking news was spreading
real fast. We are not friends, probably more of colleague. But don’t get me
wrong, it’s more than the usual “Hi boss!” or “Good morning ma’am” kind of thing. We are “Nodding Buddies” too. I
did get a chance to talk to him one time when I noticed how pretty his little
girl is. Yes, I love kids and we can talk the whole day about them. That’s the
first and last conversation we had.
I feel sad, even though I don’t
know anything about him aside from the fact that he is a father of 2 and he’s
in his late 30’s; other than that, no more information.
Life is indeed short. We can
be all laughing today and be gone by tomorrow. No one knows when we will be
going home and be with our Father.
Let’s use our time here on
earth wisely. If this is the currency of life then we need to keep in mind that sagaciously spending it will make us richer and it will get us a long way.
NICE READ.
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